Absolutely adopt her! This little lady is looking for someone to love and cherish her, and you sound like exactly the person she needs. Simply by coming on here and asking for advice shows you are a thoughtful person, and that counts for a lot. I'm sure, with patience and gentle exposure, you'll probably be able to get her at least accepting of children, even if they'll never be her favoutite thing in the world! She's young enough to learn new behaviour, and Yorkies are really, really bright!
Wookie, in all honesty, isn't bothered by children. Maybe because she met so many from 8 weeks old while we were doing our charity work for various children's charities, maybe because she's never yet been unlucky enough to come across a grabby, rough child. Our grandchildren are both 11, and both taller than me, so to her they are 'grown-ups'.
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