When I got Duchess I felt the same way. In the beginning, I was completely indifferent. For me though, I was able to figure out why. I figured out that I was comparing her to my Brandi who I had just lost six months prior to getting Duchess. I thought it was too soon.
When I realized what I was doing I immediately stopped. Once I was able to stop comparing, the love flowed and the bonds formed. I can't imagine life without her. I refer to her as my little devil dog. She terrorizes the neighborhood and everybody knows who she is. She brings a smile to my face every single day.
I hope you can figure it out too. I believe they also can feel your emotional distance. I know Duchess did. She wasn't as affectionate but now, she is always up in my face especially if she wants something. |