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  As much as you may like her I think if she doesn't listen when you ask her not to shave her there, I would be finding a new groomer. If you don't want to say something when she hands her back to you maybe next time she comes you can say something like "last time, she was very swollen and uncomfortable so I just don't want her shaved down there this time". If that doesn't work, find a new groomer. You are paying her for the haircut you want.  |