From my experience, my boy is
very needy and stares at me longingly all the time wanting my attention, but only occasionally wants to snuggle with me at my feet. My girl is slightly more independent, playing with toys by herself all the time and needs my attention less, but when she naps, she's a super cuddle bug and snuggles up in my arms.
So...I dunno which one is more affectionate lol I think it's a tie