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Originally Posted by Micah my love  I have no advice but would like to share something that i once read 
A wedding ring is the smallest handcuff ever made
choose your prison mate carefully |
Love that quote!
I'll add, he's been out of state 8 years, he's wishy washy with a gal he's with, don't do it to yourself, the waiting, the pining, it isn't going to happen... At best a future with him is friends with benefits and that is it. If that's all you want, all you expect, that would be one thing but it seems obvious that you want more, commitment, permanence, growing old together... That isn't going to happen with him. Move on! Your efforts have a better chance of success elsewhere.
Most young guys today are pigs, some of them change with age, most of them don't. You can't be the one to change them. Be honest with the one you're with, don't get used and don't be a user. Synergy!
