Oh thank God I thought somewhere along the line I had traumatize her and she was unable to eat unless she felt safe or something. Maybe its because I am with her 24/7. I go she goes, I can't even go to the potty without her wanting to go also. Finally gave in a put a potty pad in the bathroom, so she can go at the same time, I mean she was anyway. Reminds of me of potty training my son, maybe I can teach her to use the bathroom and flush? Well, I can dream.