Hi everyone
I'm pretty new to the forum, mostly I read. I didn't read the entire discussion, so I apologize if someone already said this.
What I see happening, where things tend to get nasty, is usually where someone is asking about breeding, a pregnant dog, or an injured/sick animal and they can't afford to go the vet or are not sure if they should.
I have three dogs. And with each dog I have learned a lot. My first dog came from a pet store, and has very little social skills and horrible allergies. Second dog came from a BYB, she is socialized but not nearly as much as my new baby who I got from a good breeder. With each dog, I have learned more and more.
There are a LOT of people who truly love their babies, but are learning. Just like we all have. If we want to educate people, it needs to be done in a caring manner. Not condescending. Offer up your experience, but know that sometimes people are not going to "get" it.
Hope you all have a splendiferous day