Zoey snuggles in bed with me and will sit on my lap all day long but try to pick her up and forgetaboutit! She turned six yesterday and has always been like this. Sometimes she gets off the bed at night to use her pee pad and usually jumps back up but lately she has barked for me to pick her up. I pat the side of the bed and she comes over but when I try to pick her up she backs away. Frustrating to say the least. I just ordered her stairs for the bed. She had better use them or stop that nighttime barking. I understand your frustration but she may not change. My darling Gina would freeze when I said "assume the position" to put her harness on. Their personalities are so different.
__________________  RIP my darling little Gina |