Hi and welcome We are doing the same thing but I am one step ahead of you we have picked our new baby and she comes to us in Feb. I was told that a boy would fit better with a female but I like girls best so we have a girl coming. She can use all Bellas hand me downs lol Bella is a bit spoiled but in a good way we make her mind but she has more toys then she needs and more clothes then most kids. We are retired with no grand kids so Bella is our baby and we felt we had room for one more. Let us know what you decide and good luck |