Thanks Opium for your very wise words, so sorry for your terrible losses and at such a young age - that is so so tough.
Lately I have been allowing myself to grieve and cry more, Christmas approaching has made me feel more sad. My darling Mum died last year, losing her devastated me - so when we lost Lucy too, well ... it just brought me to my knees. At the same time I feel weak for not coping. Grief is complicated. |