WOW - I'm so sorry you're having to deal with such challenging people - they seem like they're being rather rude and unhelpful. Bummer.
I would not give up on this dog yet if it were me...dogs/animals have tremendous healing capabilities. How old is this dog again?
If he is truly showing severe anxiety behaviors, I personally would not hesitate to medicate for this issue in order to help his brain re-learn what it's like to be calm / less anxious. Meds can be a miracle in severe cases.
As far as you saying "he's not cleaning himself" -- what do you mean? Dogs don't clean themselves like cats do, so I was confused by that...not sure what you meant.
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