[Buster Brown]

I feel sad for you on the loss of your first dog and all the challenges of fibromyalgia. First your Houdini was barking because he was so excited to tell your husband you were home and the other that he really needed to pee. I use piddle pads with Buster so he gets up and goes himself. Could you sleep with out ear plugs? You could also consider having a trainer initially come and work on the leaving/greeting excitement and train you in ways to diminish the excessive barking. I really wouldn't debark a dog I think that is cruel as barking is communication you just need to limit over communication. I would also consider and older rescue dog that you wouldn't have to potty train and obedience train and just wants a loving home and a lap to cuddle in. Sending best wishes and hugs to you.