[LunarBerry]

I have similar situations with my girl, Kimchi. Sometimes I get tired or don't devote enough time to her liking and then she'll go hang out with "grandma" more. (My mother watches her while I work). Then when I take her out and do more stuff with her and/or "grandma" ain't home, she'll start to stick to me more lol So it's more or less who's gonna pay more attention to her or who's got the most of what she wants :P