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Originally Posted by ladyjane  LOL she didn't say anything like that about YOU ... YOU just chose to internalize it.
......and now it is sad that *I* am here on this forum....  .... I am actually trying to help you because that was mild, but you want to feed on it, so have at it.
Maybe if you keep blowing your own horn you will feel better, but I have a feeling that won't happen. Not sure what you will do when someone REALLY says something to upset you which always happens online .. it is almost a given. I don't believe what people say about me ... it's actually good to have that belief....much less stressful. I was not always that way, but I found I get less stomach upsets and headaches by not believing the negative things said about me. |
LadyJane, you keep saying Cherie apologized, but she did not say she was sorry for what she said, she said she was sorry that I took it personally. That is NOT an apology. You two are obviously friends for you to stick up for someone that insulted me for no reason. You say you don't believe the negative things people say about you and you just ignore it as it gives you less stress and headaches. Did it ever occur to you that if you were nice instead of nasty, that you wouldn't have to worry about what people say about you and you wouldn't have these upset stomachs and headaches? I had several members send me private messages saying you do this all the time and always have to have the last word. It is just as easy to be nice as it is to be so unkind, you should try it some time. It might make you happier.