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Originally Posted by SharonSnowbird  LadyJane, for Cherie to say ---I doubt that we will hear back from "Miss Snowbird" as she will probably do as she pleases and not what is best for this pup. ----in my opinion, is nasty and unkind. To insinuate that I would do what I please and not what is best for my pup? Really??? Why does she think I am taking the time to be here and asking questions? |
Like I said.....
She was not being nasty IMHO. She was saying "probably" because it is SO often done on this forum. I didn't see it as a personal remark, but one of experience. If she said "snowbird won't be back because she is not interested" that would be taken as personal.
So...you are back. That's great and I do hope you will listen and learn. I also think that speaking with your vet is not such a bad idea.
To answer your question, Who knows why people post questions when they don't want answers; but, I have been here since 2006 and would have a nice stash of money if I had a dollar bill for every post where the OP either told us our advice sucked or never came back....only to return later with a sick or dead puppy. It can seriously be very discouraging.
Again.....it was not a personal attack IMHO...if you wish to see the negative side of it, that's your prerogative. I think it is wasted energy.