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Originally Posted by ladyjane  These are living beings who depend on us. How you could treat one as disposable is beyond my comprehension. That man would be out of my life.....OUT. Perfect? Hardly and I hope the OP sees it before she makes a huge mistake that she WILL regret later.
She does need to work on training, but that is not the real issue here in my opinion...the real issue is HIM. I have zero tolerance for people like him. As someone said, he knew this before he moved in....BS to move in and make such demands. Clearly he didn't have anything much to offer....she didn't move into his home...it was the opposite. Sounds like she had more to offer him. |
I couldn't agree more with this post, and Judy's post, and Ann's post, and many more. This is just the first demand in an attempt to take over control of your household and your life. The demand he is making is completely selfish and hateful in my opinion. I'm sure that those of us who have lived this real-life nightmare recognize the beginning of a life of misery with someone who needs to have control of you. I have been there and it is not a happy life at all. OP if you are reading any of this please think about it. We mean to offer help and not criticism. You can have your little baby, the love of your life, for many years. She will always be loyal and true to you. She will not make demands of you. She will look at you as her savior and the most important person in the world. She will give you tail wags and kisses. Sbe will give you what this boyfriend never will, unconditional love.
Now that the boyfriend has moved in and attempted to take control, you should really think long and hard if this is what you want your life to be (without your little love bug). I hope you come back and say he is gone. The pup deserves to live in her own home and be loved, adored and treasured every single day of her innocent, trusting little life. I don't think you will ever look back and regret letting him go and keeping your precious baby.