Any words of encouragement? Advice? Has anybody been in this situation?
This about an ex (I know I know) we started talking again and he says he loves me and wants to be with me but he doesn't want a relationship with me because we are different and don't work together.
He doesn't tell me how we are different or a specific reason, but I know for a fact the reason is a new woman he just started dating.
He wants me as a friend with benefits, he basically wants me to be there for him and text him all day, have sex and all that but without being together. Like an emotional and sex crutch until he gets that from the other girl... And to feed his ego maybe?
He kept stringing me along, telling me to go on dates but he wants to keep seeing the new girl as well.
Until I just gave him and ultimatum that either we are back together or we are friends and thats it. He chose to stay friends. But he still wants me in his life because he can't let me go, saying he loves me and can't be without me.
I told him I need time and that please dont text me for awhile and I will do the same and he got really sad and upset ....
I dont understand if he loves me so much and can't be without me... Why are we not together?
Anyways I blocked him from my phone because I want to start my healing process and forget about him...
Can someone talk to me
. I dont want to do this alone. This is my first day without him