Dear Jeanie, you do not have to explain or apologize to "family" that it just was not the right time for that test. You have been through so much and I'm sure at times you feel like you are running out of steam - not surprising. Seems like that text was scheduled too soon after your discharge anyway. Chill a little bit, and cuddle and play with Tibbe, then address it on another day. Staying in a state of feeling overwhelmed is not good for healing, so I think you were wise to back off for a bit. The prayers and well wishes will not stop

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We got your back, my dear