I agree with you Buddy Bear. If what you are doing works best then that is what you should do. The articles are written I am sure with the best intentions and I just wanted to share with you all in case it had any good suggestions or ideas that would be helpful. I did not agree with some things they wrote myself but heah, that does not make me a bad momma any more than it makes you or max bad parents. Just glad that you enjoyed reading it. That's why I sent the link.