[barneysmommmy]

We went through a similar situation when we brought Anna home. She, too, is a rescue. She was around 6 or older? when we got her 2 years ago. She has a very sketchy past. The rescue group feels strongly that she was kept in a cage as a breeder because of the conditions she was found in.

She began nipping at my husband within a few weeks of my bringing her home. Someone on here suggested that my husband take over her care. He did this and it made a big difference. He fed her, walked her, held her, played with her, etc. Not only did Anna nip at him less often, but he bonded with her. She is now his baby. It's funny and at times infuriating. The other two are boys and if they commit a household sin (potty in wrong place, chew up a paper towel, bark like a madman) he rants and rares. But if his precious Anna should do the same thing, he picks her up and babies her.

If your husband will, try to get him to take over some of her care. Anna still will nip my husband if she perceives danger. When he leans in toward me, she will lunge. She is a fearful biter. We have learned over time what her triggers are and we try to avoid them. A major trigger for her is visitors. When people come over, Anna is put in the bedroom. It really isn't a big deal and it keeps her and my visitors safe.