Thanks Matese, I have been going to Alfie first in certain situations such as welcoming him first when I get home from work and even when Penny is sleeping in the living room I spend time bonding with Alfie like we normally do. Just more cuddles and kisses. But never thought of the food bit and I am not sure whos bowl going down first. I'll keep that in mind for the next feed.
Here is some pictures of Alfie and Penny (Penny is the black and tan one). |