Sorry life is throwing you a tremendous number of difficult times, deaths of friends and family are the worst. I've lost a few this last year and it sucks.
If I might add, take a look at what starts the arguments. He is hurting too and needs some extra leniency at this time. Think about the arguments, what started it, is it really worth arguing over at this time. It may or may not be, IDK. It doesn't matter one iota who started it. Search out info or someone to talk to about grieving, for you, for your husband. He may not be receptive to it, that's ok, just learn some tools... for yourself. Find something that brings you some peace. That will be better for you and your husband who's mother has just died. You need each other to get through this. Put some effort in there to reduce the arguing. It's not helping.
It's not easy to find solace during difficult times, you gotta work at finding it. |