[Tuxsta]

Hi we have had our 1st Yorkie puppy for 3 weeks now she is a really bold & independent dog but when she crashes she loves a lap she is really a dog for me but whenever I sit with her on my lap she is fine until my husband sits down & then she goes over & snuggles on his lap he puts her back on my lap & she's like a bit of elastic straight back to him ?? Anyone else had this ? Also she doesn't really wag her tail at us or seem excited to see us in the morning not sure if this is something that comes with time ?
Apologies if these questions seem daft but I've not got any experience with Yorkies as we have always had cresties
Thanks in advance
Nicole