Thanks you for the help. I've only had to discipline him a couple of times, I usually just say "no" in a firm voice.I have rules that he follows and he knows what not to do so he's quick to adapting when he comes to my place. I kind of thought it was thing where he just felt more comfortable around her. He gets away with a lot more around her and she always complains to me about how bad he is around her but when he's with me he just likes to chill and doesn't act up at all. I appreciate the help i will not spank him again! thanks!