My prospective buyers first fill out an interview application....I go over that and contact them with any questions or concerns I may have.....some people do things they just do not realize can be a danger to a small dog. In my application, my request for references are first and foremost, a vet reference and/or a groomer, anyone else that they may have a professional relationship with that would verify that this person is trustworthy and responsible. Personal references, like friends or relatives or co workers, have always been contacted by the potential buyer BEFORE they are listed on the application....that is their responsibility to clear that reference before they list them.....just like ever other reference anyone gives for job interviews, etc.....you always check with people before you list them as references! I have not had anyone tell me they think my application and request for references is an intrusion.....just as anyone can check MY references, my vet, etc on line., they are scrutinizing ME as a reputable breeder. Just like THEY dont want to get stuck with a sick baby and a breeder that disappears on them, I dont want to send my baby to someone that can not/will not afford the $$$$ to provide medical care for the puppy, or they are not set up to provide care for a puppy, etc. Some people are all excited about getting a baby.....until it cries all night long for several of nights, maybe it has an issue with potty accidents, and the newness, the excitement, the thrill of having a new puppy suddenly sux! My buyer's references are every bit as important to me as MY reputation and ethics and honesty are important to any buyer. If they dont like me, they can choose another breeder.....if I dont think they are suitable to have one of my babies, I dont approve the application.
It has been my personal experience over the years, that people think they have the right to know everything about me and my breeding program and everything I do in relation to my business, (which is actually accurate) but occasionally, they do not think I have the responsibility to screen buyers for my voiceless babies.....my babies DEPEND on ME to put them in situations that are best for them.....that is a responsibility I take seriously, without reservation!
My owners stay in contact with me for many years....I have only lost contact with maybe 4 people, from out of State.... I have never regretted sending out any of my babies to any of the buyers that have come to me for a puppy.....I know them well and they know me...I always refer to us as the "extended RHG (Rosehill Gang) family.....and it is all good! |