Years ago I was on a controversial thread and I said something that other members didnt like and called me out on but I didnt see the error of my way untill the moderator pmed and kindly told me I was out of line and asked me to appologize. I dont know they still may do that but if they dont I do see Ann coming on threads and making it a point to let someone know in a constructive non preachy way that I know hits a note with someone and makes them think of there actions better than if a member does it. When a member does it they just become defensive then there is drama on the thread. Ive seen that even in this thread and I am just on the outside looking in on the situation Im not taking anyones side |