When you sound like you you are talking down to someone it does come accross preachy and contributes to drama on a thread, Im not pointing fingers at anyone Ive just been on both sides of it, I have been preached at and I have came accross preachy and see what it does in a thread. I dont see why Anns words have to be rehashed over and over though I think everyone read the thread and understood so what is the point anyway. Anyone that thinks the underlining tone in this forum is negative needs to go to other forums. They also need to realize that there are people like me on here that have witnessed the very people accused on here of having a bad tone soften up there posting on here I have witnessed it and I give all the credit to Ann for taking charge and moderating this forum and doing her best to set the tone. But do we need more than Ann doing it dont you think she is doing a good job I do |