[Wylie's Mom]

Originally Posted by oneofakind864

I have been shocked by the aggressive nature of many of the replies and the false assumptions behind them I have read on YT. And there have been several times when I saw someone seeking help..and they got lambasted for being irresponsible doggie parents. I've even been on the receiving end of some of that harshness.

It's nice to point out that none of us would be on here if we didn't care about our dogs and specifically yorkies in general. And we are all doing the best we can with the knowledge we have at any given moment.

And yes some on this site are more knowledgeable than others- dare I say "teachers"?...but passing along knowledge can be done nicely making the teacher a loved and resected mentor whose advice is treasured and implemented from then on out...or it can be passed along in a negative way which makes the "student" put up walls of protection and unfortunately in the process "missing the point" of the information being given to them.

But it shouldn't be so hard to be "kind" to each other, even when our methods of parenting gorgeous little yorkies may differ...we are all still here to try to "Help" each other..not attack. Thanks to the original poster for saying what many have thought. Hope it sticks.

Originally Posted by Faerie54

I agree with oneofakind864
Simply put, as she did, we would not be here if we did not care about our Yorkies.
When power becomes personal, judging and finger pointing ensues. We are all teachers and we are all learning as we respectively pass through each stage as Yorkie parents. Sharing news of a recently acquired pup, medical issues, food concerns, potty training, why to breed, or not, what to buy, and where. Opening our hearts, expressing pain as we face saying goodbye, letting go; it's all been written on this forum.
Negative begets negative and peeps often type without thinking; is this how I would want someone to be speaking to, or treating me? Do your word heal, or do further harm?
I look at my two cheerful, forgiving yorkies and smile. For them, each day is a fresh start, a happy adventure. They've been raised in love and kindness, resulting in trust.
I believe we all come to this forum with the same honorable intent, seeking advice, wisdom and support in celebration of these delightful creatures. Kindness and respect for each other will keep Yorkie Talk alive and growing. Shouldn't that be the focus here?

Both of these posts are really great. Thanks for posting your thoughts .