I am so sorry you have gone through this. Can you tell me a bit about your kitty. How did he come to your home was his or her mom a feral cat or a house cat? I have breed and showed cats in the past.    
Do you let you cat out and is it a hunter in the great outdoors?   
What I'm thinking is your cat must have alot of feral still in it and thats not going to change. You will have to rehome one or the other. If you choose to keep the cat you will never be able to bring in another puppy maybe a large dog.   
Don't feel guilty choose the one you want the most its ok.   
Cats do rehome quite well , if it is a hunter maybe a farm were it can hunt mice and make the farmer very happy.   
I would find it hard to see the cat in any other way but a hunter even though it is nature.   
I hope this helps a bit  lots of hugs to you.     |