I am the one that is with them around the clock. Scott is only around them for a few hours at a time. And he handled it much better last time, so I'm pretty confident that he will keep his temper. He doesn't want to hurt Toby. He does regret the way he reacted, and said he wouldn't do that again. And in the two years of our relationship he's always kept his word on anything he's said to me. We just do our best to distract Toby before he has time to act on his fixation . So so far it's been better. I won't allow anything like that to happen again.and he actively works to prevent it too by playing with Toby the minute he starts fixating . That is an improvement over just getting defensive over her after the fact. |