I agree, I think rehoming Toby with ladyjane would help reduce stress all over. You and your BF need time to recover from your recent tragedy with Marley and get back into a proper routine with Izzy. Toby may be acting out over the change in dynamics in the household and until everything is 'normal,' he will probably continue to act out.
Toby needs structure and guidance and I think you and BF have a few other issues to work on. Toby will be well loved and managed, you will still be able to stay in touch with him and I think it will be a huge relief to you all.
I wish all of you the very best. |