[capt_noonie]

I agree with everyone else. Leave the jerk asap and don't meet him anywhere! I've had the unfortunate luck to have been with a guy like this. We were together not even one year and after we broke up (HE broke it off with me after I worked a 16 hr day!) and left my self esteem totally messed up. I still have nightmares about him to this day and it's been more than 12 years. Totally controlling. He liked me for my slim figure when we first started seeing each other, then once we got together he sabotaged my diet. Gave me weight lifters protein shakes telling me it was healthy. When I had my wisdom teeth out, I thought great way to jump start losing weight for a week only soft foods, soups, etc. My medication kept me knocked out most the day. He would wake me up and feed me: mashed potatoes, with mayo, spam and butter. I was too out of it to know, just that I should eat. Didn't even let me wear regular bras bc my boobs looked too big. Made me wear sports bra styles that flattened out my C cup. He could have attitude or say mean things, but if I so much said anything with sass, he cussed me out. Told me I have no say in anything bc I didn't have a job (I was a full time student at the time, he worked at an auto parts store). I could go on. Even after we broke up, he wanted to be friends. But when I would call him to chat, he would brag to me about his new younger girlfriend, that her parents are wealthy like his. He even called my sister to ask if he could stay at her place while he visited his gf at college bc he was not allowed to stay in her dorm room! Can you imagine the nerve!

Leave the A-hole now! Do NOT give him another chance. He is only manipulating you. After only 3 months you should not be seeing this behavior. Actually never. This is scary. I don't have anything against people who use cuss words. I mean I do. But the way he said it, over spilled milk?! OMG who is really the psycho?

Another thing I am worried about is if you say no to him, he may become a stalker. Keep notes of if he ever threatens you. I was going to say to tell him you will meet him and stand him up, but I think that will piss him off a lot and might want to get even, so don't do that. Just cut the cord. Don't talk to him at all. No text no nuthin.