After he called me all those names, plus general cursing while saying other things (like the f word and sh**)I broke up with him. I made it clear that it was over and I will never forgive him. That's when he started to tell me he was in love with me, so I was considering giving him a second chance. he never mentioned love before, thats why I'm thinking he's manipulating me.
He has shown attitudes before, like one time we had an argument and he told me that we are not going out anymore so I stayed home. The other time he went into his room and never came out again, living me alone in the living room (this was in his apt so I grabbed my keys to go home, as soon as he heard I was leaving he came out quickly and said sorry and pls stay)
The last fight was about milk spilling, I was making a protein shake and milk started spilling from the blender, he got really upset and was talking to me with an attitude.
He also has a very bad road rage
*sigh* honestly when he called me all those names, I thought "wow all this time I've been having this weird feeling this guy might have anger issues, and I was right, I kept ignoring my instincts because I really wanted it to work"
No one has ever cursed at me in my life, even when I really deserve it lol and I was actually behaving like a crazy person, no guy has ever said anything really bad like that.
Thank you for all the advice, I'm having a lot of anxiety about meeting him and he insisted to meet in his apt, but I told him better in a public place, now I'm reconsidering even meeting him.
My fear is that he's going to be able to hide his anger until we are married or I'm pregnant. What am I going to do when he calls me names while I'm pregnant?
It could be a one time mistake too, maybe he's not a bad guy, but maybe he is. It's just a big risk to take for a 3 month relationship.
I also thought about seeing a counselor, it's sad that we have been together for only 3 months and already in need of counseling
I also think about Bentley, what if one day he gets angry at him and hurts him and I'm not around to see it ...