I have had many females spayed over the years and never had to have a lampshade collar on them.    Why don't you just remove the collar for awhile and just watch her close.   Is she on pain medication?    It usually takes them a few days to quit hurting and to start feeling better.    Just continue to hand feed her and spoil her.    I pray she makes a speedy recovery.     
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