Thanks for all the kind words and understanding..
I've tried to let her do her own thing and "ignore" her. In fact, that's what I do just about 99% of the time because I never want to force her into anything she doesn't want to do. But it hasn't worked, she's still stubborn. I'm just at a loss on what to do. I obviously love her to pieces either way but I would just love it if she would be closer with me. It's weird, too, she doesn't like belly rubs. I mean, she doesn't mind them for about 5 seconds but she never rolls over and asks for them. I'm just concerned that she doesn't trust me enough and she is feeling alone and therefore feels the need to "fend for herself". :\