[Harrysmum]

Originally Posted by kirbybirby

I feel as though my yorkie doesn't trust me because she very rarely cuddles with me. The only time she will ever "cuddle" is when it's early in the morning and cold. But any other time she will sit on the opposite side of the room. She never seems to be happy to see me other than a quick 30 second burst of energy when I come home. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I know some dogs are laid back and maybe it's just her personality but it makes me very sad that she won't cuddle with me or show much affection towards me. Is there any way I can get her to cuddle? I've tried rewarding her when she does cuddle but it never works. She always pushes away from me when I hold her or bring her over near me to sit next to me. I've been around her since, well, before she was even born so I would think there should be a stronger bond. She is 2 years old as of yesterday. I don't know, I just feel so untrusted by her.

That must be so upsetting - and frustrating - for you.

We give our all to the little ones - keeping them loved and fed and totally looked after - and yet you're feeling this way - I'm sorry.

I realise it sounds a little bit harsh and cruel - but I wonder if you should try a bit of 'reverse psychology'? A little bit of ignoring her - a little bit of coolness - make her think she wants to come to you, instead of you wanting that?

I know that if I MAKE Harry do anything, then he'll struggle. But he'll do anything in the world for my husband Andy - but Andy never asks anything of him - they just bash along together (as men do!!!).

How is she with other members of your family? My heart really goes out to you....Sally + Harry xx