I'm so sorry for your loss of you sweet Phoebe, it clear that you loved her dearly. It is quite a normal part of the grieving process to start second guessing everything.
As for her going quickly , I have found that the norm when going through this heartbreaking process, find some comfort in the fact that she went so peacefully , and try to accept that you did as much as you could for her. It is a long process in grieving for your little one that you cared for daily through her life.
__________________  From Julie  Alfie  & Lottie |