I am so sorry to hear this
accidents do happen and I am sure your husband will be forever more vigilant! I hope all goes well for your sweet little baby and will look forward to the updates. I would spend this agonizing time planning for your little girls recovery (busy that worrying mind of yours) and finding information on post op expectations and tips for how to 'take it easy' during that time. Bet there's some good stuff on here. Warm hugs and best wishes