Lilah is my one and only at this time and although I appreciate the adoration one can lavish on a single and focus on the needs like high maintenance grooming needs etc, I truly feel she needs a buddy.
Lilah turns two in a couple of days and it was very important to me that we establish our relationship and day to day expectation before considering another- she has been ready for a little sister for a minute now. I heard some fabulous threes a charm logic and it went like "if I have three then I can spend one on one time taking one out but the two left behind will never be sad ad lonely when I do that". I want to remember who said that on here so I can credit her but man if that didn't make a whole lot of sense
and I know from having human children hat two to three is not a huge leap but life really does change higher than that, lol!