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Originally Posted by Lovetodream88  I was asking serious questions. I think her breeding practice does mean a lot in this situation about who is wrong and who deserves judgement. She also came of as snarky to me in her post. I do tend to always lead more towards the buyer then the breeder most times even right off the bat I guess that is because I have been soured by so many bad breeders. |
I think it's great to ask serious questions...nothing wrong with that at all. And it's fine to develop opinions about what you think her breeding program represents.
I think, though, we can also be respectful concurrently to all of that - there is no good reason why we cannot. My personal belief is that just bc someone treats you a certain way, it doesn't mean you should respond in the same manner. In other words, if she treated you w/ snark - why does that mean it's okay / admirable for you to turn around and then do the same? Why not meet snark with its opposite instead, ya know? Be the bigger person.
I hear you on being "soured" by so many breeders. At the same time, as someone recently mentioned to me -- I am also SO soured by many, many bad pet owners.