Micaela,
I am one of the people who only addressed your first question. Go back and reread your post:
http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/showthread.php?t=33300
You titled it "She Gets The Shakes. I Think She's Mad at Me". You spent at least three quarters of your post discussing that issue and then tacked the weight question at the end.
I answered what I thought concerned you most.
Others addressed your concerns that your pup seems underweight. You were NOT given a hard time about her weight. Go back and reread that thread. I see nothing in it that could offend you. Nor do I see anything to lead you to the conclusion that "maybe you all are right about ignoring some people".
Maybe you're just wanting to start a debate over the size of Yorkies. I don't know.
I'm sorry. But now, I'm offended.