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Originally Posted by crystalsmom  Carolyn, I am just seeing this and just wish there was something I could say to help except that I know we all want to with all our hearts.
My Mom and I were like sisters and had such fun. When she died, I too lost my best friend and wondered how my children and I would handle it? It was hard for a time and during that time my husband missed her so much and since he was not as open about how well he respected her when she was alive, I was surprised After a time, I would feel a bet of wind go over me in the house with no windows opening and I wondered if it was a sign. I'll never know in this world but it would have been just like her to check in to see what was going on and since she moved like the speed of wind it would be so appropriate.
I know your memories will be wonderful too and something you will cherish as time goes gets easier for you.
(((hugs)))
Joan |
Thank you, I like to think they visit us. The day before my birthday I was sound asleep and I heard my mother call my name just like she would do when she was upstairs and I was downstairs. I called out "what do you want Mom" and then woke up realized where I was and burst into tears because it was so nice to hear her voice. I was thankful I was able to make it home before she passed and even though she was heavily drugged I like to think she knew I was there.