Carolyn, I am just seeing this and just wish there was something I could say to help except that I know we all want to with all our hearts.
My Mom and I were like sisters and had such fun. When she died, I too lost my best friend and wondered how my children and I would handle it? It was hard for a time and during that time my husband missed her so much and since he was not as open about how well he respected her when she was alive, I was surprised After a time, I would feel a bet of wind go over me in the house with no windows opening and I wondered if it was a sign. I'll never know in this world but it would have been just like her to check in to see what was going on and since she moved like the speed of wind it would be so appropriate.
I know your memories will be wonderful too and something you will cherish as time goes gets easier for you.
(((hugs)))
Joan
Last edited by crystalsmom; 12-10-2014 at 01:29 PM.
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