Chachi - Thank you for your clarification on the "silence" question and the answer is no. There is no amount of money that would keep me silent. I am not that kind of person.
Diane took full responsibility for her actions (lack there of) and her harsh words. She admitted she let her emotions get the best of her as she had herself just received news of her own health concerns. She doesn't blame me for the actions I took to have this resolved. To Joyce who asked about siblings that too is a concern and since I have an almost 2 year old from her out of the same parents I cant help but pray she lives a healthy life and that I couldn't possibly go through this again..... I offered my opinion on retiring the parents and trying to identify who carries the gene but I didn't push it when I realized she had her own opinion on that.
Mauigirl - I will most certainly be continuing my relationship with YT and I don't think this would have been possible without all of you!
I will let you know when my check clears!