Tina, I am so so sorry for your loss of little Henry. I lost my sweet girl Jasmine, my Lab on Oct. 19th so I know exactly how you feel. Many of us do. I also have my boy Bisquit who has Lymphoma so some days can be extremely depressing to say the least but I pull up my boot straps. I have to because I have other fur babies that need and love me too. I love them all and fully focus on dividing my attention between them. I push myself to do the same things as if there was no loss and as if my boy is not so sick. Giving myself time to grieve but when I catch myself dwelling on the negative I push myself to focus on the positive. My babies deserve the mom that they are used too and so does yours. Try to stay strong for the rest of your family. No one can take away the sweet memories we share with our babies and we and only we can control the quality time we spend with them. Try to make more sweet memories with your kiddos starting now. Enjoy them to the fullest, let them help you heal. I'm sure they'll be glad to. Try to focus on what is right now, what you can control instead of what might happen or never happen. I pray you find happiness my friend!
__________________ Hannah's Mom |