Thanks for all your responses, after reading all your replays I got my baby a thin safety fast release cat collar, so I put it on him and it fitted snugly , I took extra time making sure the fit was good. Once on I let my baby down to play and watched him, he was fine playing with his toys but then after half an hour he sat down and he tried to fiddle with the collar so I wiggled his toys to take his mind off it. I kept him with me all morning so I could watch him and the collar and everything seemed fine BUT I left him down to play in the kitchen while I was baking and OMG he had managed to push his front paw through the collar and was making cloaking noises the quick release didn't open until I grabbed him and released it
He is fine
but I'm now not sure about collars