Hubby and I at odds on our little Benny. Last night he was up 3 times to go out. Bless his heart he doesn't soil my carpet, but sleep is sleep right? His dishes were empty at 8pm and hubby filled both of them up. He doesn't eat when we are gone during the day by his choice. Has always been like that. I told hubby last night he had all ready ate and drank and to leave it or we'll be up all night. I was right and hubby does not/will not get up with him (he's my dog
). Here's my question...is it cruel to put up the dishes? Hubby thought so, but I don't. Please tell me if I'm wrong.