You will get used to single life,,,,hang in there. It took me a while, but once it happened, I am very content and happy with it! Get somekind of something made of latex, like a rubber glove, to wrap around those jar lids you cant get off, and they will open easily for you! Get you a step ladder from the hardware storem so you can reach those high spots!Start you a little notebook with names of trusted, recommended repairment, for the jobs you cant do yourself! Make a friend at Home Depot! Languish in the reality you can come and go whenever you want to, or dont want to, cook when you want to or dont want to, read a good book, soak in a hot tub of water surrounded with candles, just relaxing with NO time schedule to keep! or just spend time with Charlie, sitting and doing nothing if that is what you want to do! I LOVE being single, of course I am 65 years old, but I am having a ball taking care of ME (and my son and all these little dogs!). Hang in there, it take time to adjust, but you will get there......you came out of this dark tunnel with your best friend, your most loving, devoted, loyal, true friend right there at your side! You just enjoy you and Charlie for now.....and what happens down the road is a new adventure for you both to face together! Welcome back!!! |