Bless your heart, and your matriarch's heart as well! Sounds like you have a clear course of action,and I am sure your senior has a loving, safe future, established by you, her protector.....this is as it should be! Please keep us posted on how things become more orderly and established and comfortable for her. With her past history, she already has some confidence issues....she only wants to be loved, and does not want to have to fight for that priviledge.....with the changes you are going to institute, she will regain her little personality and confidence to at least the level it was before she had to defend herself from that "youngblood".....and she can continue into her golden years with her momma, protected when she can not protect herself, appreciating "alone time, special time" with her momma....she will appreciate this more than anything else! And tell her she too, is your very favorite.....(You dont let the others hear you say that...that is special, private love notes between you and her....) |