Sorry
shelbysmom, you did mention to ignore the trainer and I think that is excellent advice and exactly what I intend to do.
I am really angry with him and think he has led to my confusion and, thus, my dogs confusion and now this situation I'm in which has made me so frustrated.
As I mentioned subsequent to your posting, the trainer told me I caused problems by being to attentive to my dog and I think he is an idiot!!!!
Thanks for taking the time to reply, I hope I didn't sound harsh. I don't mind any criticism at all if it helps.
I probably wasn't clear with why I was doing some of the things I was doing.